drumsrdrugs wrote: I feel like it takes me months to put something into my performing vocabulary..... And I'm not talking about a really difficult chop.
Any suggestions for performance retention
Retention is purely a matter of qualitative repetition. In context particularly is important. Break the lick down to it's basic elements, the basic strokes with that make it up. Learn it reverse, left hand lead, within different time contexts (16ths, triplets, quintuplets, etc). However...
I think part of the problem is you're thinking of it as "this lick". It may be you're caught up on the sticking, or the sound. Either way I would suggest trying to get away from that type of thinking - patternized, modular "drop and plop" lick playing.
If you can internalize the concept, it no longer becomes "this lick" or "that lick", it becomes just playing musically and expressing a musical idea at whim. Learn to think melodically and harmonically about what is going on in the context.
You will find after awhile in your conversation on drums that you play that given lick and it comes out beautiful or you may never play it ever. Either way who cares?
Think of it like a kid who learns a new big word and try's to use it whenever he speaks. Just learn the word, and move on. If you learn what and why the word is, then you'll inevitably learn about more words, how they apply to context and when the most effective place to use them is.
This is in large part the concept behind gridding, being able to place an accent, diddle or flam in any given position of any given note passage or rudiment. It allows you the flexibility to not think about what your hands (and feet) are doing, and let them do the job of translating the musical ideas in your mind to the sticks on the drums.
Try and internalize it - "It's all just singles or doubles"
BTW - Adults learn the fastest. Particularly when it comes to internalizing complex concepts. Kids just seem like they learn faster because their knowledge base is particularly small, you don't see the learning in adults as much because their knowledge base is already so vast. Also most adults just don't have the quantity of comparable time to put into learning like kids do.