It's not very "jazzlike" or "session-musician-it's-all-about-what-you-hear-like."
but
This is the music business, it's always been like that in the pop business and that young chick that got the IG award, or whatever, does know how to play and is pretty hawt.
Just do your own thing and try to do the best with what you have.
People have always complained about this stuff. Regardless of if it's envy or if it's justified, it's just a waste of time.
It's hardly like the jazz world doesn't have cliques and shady social shit going on. There's plenty of that stuff everywhere.
As long as you can play music you like and you're able ot make some sort of living you don't have one FAQing thing to complain about.